Married Couples Who Opened Up Your Relationship, Tell Us Why You Did It & How Swinging Improved or Worsened Your Marriage

Like many others, I am in the process of binge eating. The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives and I can honestly say that I am DELIGHTED.

I also recently read a memoir entitled: More: Memories of an Open Marriage, tells the story of a woman trying to find her way in her sexual life and extramarital relationships.

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These women’s stories made me curious about how people opened their marriages. So, BuzzFeed community members who are married, have you ever opened your marriages?

If so, did you always expect this to be a key part of your relationship, or did the opening up of your relationship come as a surprise to you?

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Have you and your spouse felt that your marriage would benefit from “swinging”? That it would be some kind of sexual adventure that you could have together?

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How did you find other people to be intimate with? Did you use a dating app? Did you go to an event? Did you propose to a friend or another couple you already knew?

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What was it like opening your marriage? Did it work? Is it still open?

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What do you think people should know about open marriages?

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Share your stories in the comments section or via this Google form if you prefer to remain anonymous.

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