“It Was Hard” (Exclusive Source)

The Foo Fighters rocker revealed in September that he welcomed a child out of wedlock

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Jordyn Blum, wife of Foo Fighters frontman Dave Grohl, is picking up the pieces.

In September, Grohl, 55, revealed that he had welcomed a child outside of their 21-year marriage. Now, “Jordyn is focused on her own life and her girls,” a source tells PEOPLE about Blum, 48, who has three daughters with Grohl, Violet (18), Harper (15) and Ophelia (10). ).

“It was difficult for her. However, he is not thinking about marriage. He doesn’t trust Dave. He doesn’t wear a wedding ring,” adds Blum’s source. “It’s based on a group of girls. She feels happy to be surrounded by love and support.”

Blum and Grohl’s rep did not immediately respond to PEOPLE’s request for comment

Related: Dave Grohl leaves without wedding ring after saying he’s working to ‘regain’ wife’s trust over mystery baby

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Like Blum, Grohl was recently spotted without his wedding ring as he went out to run errands in Los Angeles’ Encino neighborhood on Wednesday, October 2.

On September 10, Grohl announced in a statement posted to Instagram that he had welcomed “a new baby girl, born outside of my marriage” with another woman.

“I plan to be a loving and supportive parent to her. I love my wife and my children and I am doing everything in my power to regain their trust and earn their forgiveness,” he wrote in his statement.

At the time, a separate source confirmed to PEOPLE that Grohl had retained a divorce lawyer before sharing the baby news.

Grohl and Blum married in 2003. The couple hasn’t publicly addressed the state of their marriage, but multiple sources recently told PEOPLE that Blum, co-founder of an interior design company, has known about the baby “for some time.”

“She was shocked when she found out about the baby,” another friend of Blum’s recently told PEOPLE. “Her friends are like family and they rally around her.”

Before Grohl announced the news of his baby, Foo Fighters were scheduled to perform at the Soundside Music Festival in Bridgeport, Connecticut on September 29. The band withdrew from their performance three days before the event, and Jack Biały took his place in the lineup.

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